Kembali lagi kita. Penat, sibuk dan yang paling penting... alasan sebenar is malas nk menulis. Semenjak Mr Choc Fudge busy travel... fb off... lg bosan. X de geng masuk longkang. Khaff ni sibuk kalah PM :)
Ok ok... jom kita bercerita about tajuk hari ini. Tajuk ni saya dapat idea dari kawan just few mins ago. Katanya tadi... masih wujud kah phrase "suka dalam diam". Or dalam erti kata yang lagi daring... kalau suka seseorang.. perlukah kita berterus-berterus-terang atau simpan dalam hati saja. Or... perlukah perempuan mulakan kata2 mukadimah... "saya suka awak" :)... Oh! I love this method.. siapa nak mulakan langkah dulu? Lelaki ke Perempuan? For me... nothing wrong or right. Zaman moden... era sekarang, generasi berubah. Ada yang suka lelaki mulakan dahulu dan of course ada yang suka perempuan yang mula dulu jika dah suka.
It's happened to the best of us. You accidentally blurt out those three little words, only to be met with silence or "thank you." It's tricky to know when to first tell your partner "I love you" and whether you should let him know how you feel or wait for him to say it first. OHHHHH... why so stresssful about this my friend :) . Kita lagi mengenali orang yang kita suka tu. Jadi.. sebelum berkata sesuatu, kita kajilah dulu dia tu macam mana. Alah.... test2 lah sikit. Sure kita akan dapat jawapan macam mana cara yang di dia boleh terima.
Alahai... I tak sempat nak buat sampling survey and data ni... cuma ada satu je td. Jadilah ye :) . Kalau ikut kawan I yang baru je lepas tadi bincangkan issue ni.. He prefers girl bagitahu dia terus-terang kalau sukakan dia. Well... setiap lelaki ada preference masing-masing kan. It is ok.. tak salah pun. Jom I share sedikit tips yang I rasa macam boleh diterima pakai je. Kalau you all rasa macam ada yang tak kena, tak payah ikutlah ya.
Dating can become a game of strategy, especially in the beginning. We women think (or I je yang think hehehe) we know men, but in fact their turn ons may surprise us. So, next time you consider keeping your feelings quiet and let him drop the hints first, reconsider. Your confession shows him that you are a mature and dignified lady who isn’t afraid of going after what she wants and he will find that extremely sexy.
Jomlah... I share sesuatu ya. Ini apa yang I fikirlah. I bukannya Dr Like or Dr Love :)
No Joking Around......
Cute is great, but it isn’t a turn on. If you drop the fact that you like him into a playful joke, he won’t know if you are being serious or just kidding around. When you tell him, make sure he knows you mean it. If you are feeling insecure, it may be easier to let the information spill while you are being silly. A sincere statement says a lot about your confidence, and men love a confident woman. Agak2 betul tak? You all men suka woman yg confident?
Straight to the Point......
No need for a big speech, telling him how you feel is as simple as “I like you.” If you get tangled up in words, what you really want to say may not come out as clearly. Plus, you don’t want to give it all away right off the bat. Save some of that sweet talk for later. Tak payah buat karangan or puisi bagai. Yang paling penting... No need that lenggang lenggok yg tiba-tiba macam ke arah kegedikan. Oooppsss... apologise my words ya. I cuma nak ingatkan je..
Oklah... rasa macam dah banyak dan cukup untuk di share. Yang baik itu dari Allah.. yang buruk itu dari I sendiri.
Good Luck friends!
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